Read This If You’re In Love With An Emotionally Unavailable Man

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I am independent and strong. Playing the victim is not. He's emotionally unavailable right now, but if I just wait it out until he gets over his ex or breaks up with his girlfriend, he'll finally become available! The whole thing is a pointless game in which no woman can truly win unless she becomes this demi-god of a woman that only exists in fiction.

Prevention is the best medicine. If he always puts himself first, then it is likely that he always will. Anyone who is incapable of accepting or reciprocating feelings is missing out on one of the most rewarding gifts in life.

Emotionally Unavailable Men: 8 Signs (And How To Handle One)

Physical intimacy is minimal, and there is this connection that we seem to be missing. I have never viewed myself as needy or clingy but the rejection I receive from him has turned me into just that. I was talking to a friend and by friend, I mean my therapist and I told her that I know this man loves me, but there is a piece of sensitivity and intimacy that he holds back from me and I have no idea what I can do about it. When you love someone…you want to express it. You want them to feel loved. I ask these questions, in hopes to understand the man I love. The biology of women and men are designed in such a way that in the most basic description: men are simple creatures. I have found myself in tears trying to have him understand my point of view because more often than not, I feel very misunderstood by him. I either swallow the tirade of words for him to understand my view, which is a waste of energy. A deeply rooted problem caused by whatever or whoever is the culprit. It has absolutely nothing to do with you. He drank too much and was an asshole to you at the party? It happened because YOU said something two hours earlier that rubbed him the wrong way. An emotionally unavailable person rarely admits their mistakes. Their fear of intimacy and also insecurity causes them to be blameless in all circumstances. It will always be your fault. Everything is All About Him A man, who has been a bachelor for most of his adult life, is going to always have a level of distance about him. Being self-absorbed is a typical defense mechanism for emotionally unavailable men. This person will be unable to compromise and in order to avoid looking as the weaker one in the relationship, will say and do things to feel superior. Men and women view and express things differently. All he hears is noise because what could have taken him ten seconds to articulate has taken me twenty minutes…because in my mind, MORE WORDS WILL CHANGE HIS VIEW. From what I hear, the happier and more secure you are with yourself, the more your partner will be receptive to sharing more of himself with you.

We attribute his unwillingness to commit to outside circumstances rather than to his own choice, which is what it is — if he wanted to be with you, he would and waste so much time waiting around for a man's emotional availability to change. I have so much to tout, and you do too. How to Address This: A man who is emotionally secure can talk about past relationships in a constructive way. Dating emotionally unavailable men is frustrating. The older a man gets, the more he hates this about himself, and he often stays stuck by staying in the relationship, but giving very little. Do not plan around him, go out pursue your own interests. When he sees a homeless woman asking for change at the dating an emotionally unavailable man, does he say, boy I wish the cops would clean up the homeless note. I think that most women might actually like to have a relationship, but not necessarily with that particular man. At least at not as diversely.